How to Win Over the Geeky Girl in College

Welcome to college. Welcome to an entirely new universe. High school was the place for cliques, and as you may or may not have noticed, not much has changed. The jocks will still hang out with the jocks and the geeks will still hang out with the geeks. If you have been spending a lot of time cramming for upcoming tests in the library, you may have noticed the geeky girl sitting across the room reading her book. Maybe she is wearing oversized glasses and she still wears a side ponytail. There is something about her that you are attracted to and you want to get to know her better. You don’t know whether she has a boyfriend or not, but you want to win her over. How can you do it? Winning over the geeky girl will be simple, if you know the right way to go about it.

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The Game Plan

The geeky girl is just like any other girl. She will like you for the person you are, so you should never be fake with her. If you usually wear jeans and sneakers, don’t go out of your way to wear khakis and dress shoes. Approach her like she is a normal person rather than a celebrity and talk to her. Chances are that you will find you have something in common. Maybe she likes the same foods as you do or maybe even the same movie. If you want to win her over, you could ask her on a date. Plan something really special. Take her to a restaurant where they serve her favorite food. After dinner, you could head back to your dorm or back to your apartment if you live off campus and watch her favorite movie. A girl will be truly impressed by you when she sees that you are willing to make things about her, rather than yourself. Most guys would rather watch scary horror films, but if you watch A Walk to Remember with her, this will show that you really do like her. Another way to win the geeky girl over is to send her flowers. Every girl loves flowers, and she will be impressed that you thought to send them.

Make her yours

Remember that the geeky girl is no different than the cheerleader. She has feelings and needs as well as anyone else. Be sure to not hold her on a high pedestal like she is a celebrity and not to have expectations or to rush things. Be down to earth with her and most importantly, be real. The geeky girl will be impressed that you went out of your way to make her feel special. If you follow these simple rules, you will win her over in no time at all and maybe even be able to call her your girl. Good luck in winning over the geeky girl at college! You can do it! 

Jim Colbert is a freelance writer for He helps student find forensic psychology programs that fit their needs.

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